Of course I have had multiple diagnoses.
Same.
Even with my diagnosis I behave way better that anyone else in my school. My mom constantly thanks me for not acting like them.
I really don't give a damn if I embarrass my family, especially now that I am going on 23. What is comfortable and harmless and works for me, works for me. Even my own family has zero business telling me to look more normal for my own good. Now that I have moved out, I am glad to be with someone who would never in a million years find my odd ways embarrassing.
That is good.