Comment on Are You Gay, Bi or Straight? by inspiredcreativity
Welp, looks like I'm gay XD I'm 13, the only times I have dreamt or thought romantically about someone it was a person of the same gender. I haven't had to much romantic and zero sexual inclination though I suffer from stress and some anxiety and depression so it makes sense. No definite answer yet, but this definitely helped
Hi, Stress, anxiety and depression can definitely shut down sexual libido, but it is also possible that you are a late bloomer. Give yourself some time. If you ever feel the need to ask questions or talk about issues, feel free to contact me. If you send me a DeviantArt Note, it will be completely private and confidential. I have been a volunteer Peer Counselor to the Sexual Minority Community for around 25 years. I am also Gay and I have been with my husband for over 25 years. We prove that you can be gay and be successful in life, successful in career and successful in love. I first came-out in 1968 when I was 13, but my aunt dismissed it as a phase boys go through. I was very sheltered and knew nothing of sexuality, so I told her that I felt about boys the way I am supposed to feel about girls. It was very rough being Gay back then, but it far better now. Even back in the 1970s, when it was very challenging to be gay, I still easily found love, although I did not go looking for it until I was 23. But I was also autistic and very shy.
If you are having a lot of stress in school, know that life gets far better after you get out of High School.
If you want to talk to someone else, at any time day or night (24/7), you can call the TREVOR HOTLINE for GLBT teens at 1-866-488-7386
This is NOT just for crisis or suicide. You can call to talk to someone if you have questions, if need someone to talk to, if you are having a bad night, having an anxiety attack, and so on. They will listen without judgment.
Their phones are set up to BLOCK YOUR PHONE ID. Your Identity and Phone info are 100% Anonymous.
You can also talk to them through Chat or Text. They also have TrevorSpace, a Social networking sight for LGBTQ youth ages 13 to 24, and their freinds and allies.
Trevor Home Page
TrevorChat A free, confidential secure instant messaging support service
TrevorText A free, confidential text messaging service
TevorSpace An online community for LGBTQ young people and their friends
Trevor Support Center Where LGBTQ youth and allies can find answers to FAQs and explore resources related to sexual orientation, gender identity and more
I wish you the very best,
Matthew
If you are having a lot of stress in school, know that life gets far better after you get out of High School.
If you want to talk to someone else, at any time day or night (24/7), you can call the TREVOR HOTLINE for GLBT teens at 1-866-488-7386
This is NOT just for crisis or suicide. You can call to talk to someone if you have questions, if need someone to talk to, if you are having a bad night, having an anxiety attack, and so on. They will listen without judgment.
Their phones are set up to BLOCK YOUR PHONE ID. Your Identity and Phone info are 100% Anonymous.
You can also talk to them through Chat or Text. They also have TrevorSpace, a Social networking sight for LGBTQ youth ages 13 to 24, and their freinds and allies.
Trevor Home Page
TrevorChat A free, confidential secure instant messaging support service
TrevorText A free, confidential text messaging service
TevorSpace An online community for LGBTQ young people and their friends
Trevor Support Center Where LGBTQ youth and allies can find answers to FAQs and explore resources related to sexual orientation, gender identity and more
I wish you the very best,
Matthew