Comment on bbw in bondage by melandjodie
Don't mean to butt into your conversation here, but as a fat chick myself, I find it extremely rude when women say to other women that they "need a cheeseburger." It's just as bad as if a skinny woman told me to put down a cheeseburger. How can you admonish someone for calling fat ugly one minute, then criticize someone else's body the next? And don't say it was just a joke, because having your body insulted is never funny.
I understand feeling like, as overweight women, we're constantly fighting against the "skinny woman" expectation, but lashing out is not the answer. (Now, if you turn to your girlfriend and say it amongst yourselves, that's different, 'cuz you know that skinny bitch is talkin' about you too!
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P.S. Just occured to me that you never said you were a BBW, so that was an assumption on my part.
I understand feeling like, as overweight women, we're constantly fighting against the "skinny woman" expectation, but lashing out is not the answer. (Now, if you turn to your girlfriend and say it amongst yourselves, that's different, 'cuz you know that skinny bitch is talkin' about you too!
)P.S. Just occured to me that you never said you were a BBW, so that was an assumption on my part.