no, I'm not offended at all... I thought I'd come off like I hated her, lol. Yes, she's been given the short end of the stick in a lot of ways, and that could wear on a person.
My visceral, immediate reaction to her kissing Neelix was to deck her. It's the protector in me i guess
If I were her, tho, and Neelix started bringing this attractive girl along with him, and seeing them together, tho he's not overt at work, I never would have kissed him in a million years. I'd find out first WTF was going on before even considering doing something like that...I guess she was in a pretty emotional state, eh?