Thanks Ellia, it's great to know it's resonating with other parents! Women on TV giving birth in seconds is one of our biggest pet peeves. "Oh my water just broke, there's no time!" Pfft. I know some women do have quick labours but the majority of women are damned heroic when it comes to enduring labour. And then to get no rest and look after a newborn?!? They should seriously give every mother a medal!