I am envious. Not only am I fascinated with the culture, but their spirit as well. This is not a religious talking here, but all the japanese people I have ever met have this strength that some (if not most) americans i have observed have. Their culture (however bloodY) is so rich I cant imagine how much you probably soaked up. Have fun over there for the rest of us who are dreaming, and please snap some pics. Girlfriend at a Shinto shrine aye? aye?