not better per se, its just that finding a sexually open guy who doesnt obsess about his own sexuality is a very difficult task.
ally was looking for a submissive guy, unfortunately the most they would let her do is tie them up and from there on there wasnt much to do as they were all very much limited in the playfullness department
in the end when our desires as humans are ncontinously unfulfilled we adapt and seek their fulfillment elsewhere
ally would have probably found a guy for herself, its just that at a perfect moment of frustration lisa appeared in her life