Haha you're not at all being a buzz kill. Dag man, it's a miracle, because yeah, if you abuse it...i don't think you necessarily have to abuse it for them to start aging you. It'd be crazy to see someone so young look so old. Good thing you're there for your brother though, even if it has been 3 years. But yeah, I'm glad we can talk like this, i'll talk whenever, if you got something you wanna discuss.