I hate the word homophobia too, because of the way people throw it around.
I believe acting upon homosexual tendencies is wrong. I'm not scared, I just don't agree with it.
However, people are quick to slap labels like that on others. You might not realize it, but "Homophobic" is a label.
This day is about being positive, even if you don't agree with them.
Try being a bit more open-minded and realizing that people have different opinions. We all don't have to agree with each other, but we do have to have some sort of mutual respect.
Don't be a bully. (: