I'm not asking for advice, I'm just saying its unrealistic to expect women to be that skinny. And if you're seriously expecting women to run a 3k every single day just so you don't think their disgusting I think you should rethink your shallow attitude.
Maybe you didn't mean to say that you think fat women are disgusting, but you should be more careful about how you word things because that's definitely what it sounded like.
Maybe you didn't mean to say that you think fat women are disgusting, but you should be more careful about how you word things because that's definitely what it sounded like.
No, fat is disgusting. However, I should probably categorize it better...
Obesity is disgusting, chubbyness is unattractive, normal skinny is, well, normal / attractive, and slimness ("petite") is aesthetically pleasing
And everyone is slightly shallow, has their own type.
I like only women with bright eyes - it's not that I find brown / dark eyes bad, it's just that it's not my thing, it doesn't intrigue me, trigger my attetion.
Obesity however is just really disgusting and people should be ashamed of themselves.
Obesity is disgusting, chubbyness is unattractive, normal skinny is, well, normal / attractive, and slimness ("petite") is aesthetically pleasing
And everyone is slightly shallow, has their own type.
I like only women with bright eyes - it's not that I find brown / dark eyes bad, it's just that it's not my thing, it doesn't intrigue me, trigger my attetion.
Obesity however is just really disgusting and people should be ashamed of themselves.
Dude! You are coming off very ignorant and arrogant even though you don't mean it. It's like you're saying "if you're not skinny you can fuck off and die cause you're worth nothing. You are disgusting even with little fat! If you don't have abs you're fat". Everyone has some type of people that they are more attractive to but you come off as if a girl isn't attractive enough for you then she's worthless.
Look. You and I are fortunate enough that we can spend our time in the gym. You do it for the looks I do it for the health. But some people can't spend as much time as they want to. Not every guy can get abs as easy as I can but then there's some things on my body that I have harder time to "build".
Having a little bit of fat on your body is normal for a girl. It's feminine and it's what most guys like. That is you're normal typical girl you see. Then there's the skinny ones that, sure are attractive and then there's the ones with abs and a bit muscly. Many guys don't find the later type attractive cause muscles usually belong to guys and when a girl has muscles she's not considered very feminine. Now I'm not saying that's wrong, I'm only saying that we are programmed that way.
Look. You and I are fortunate enough that we can spend our time in the gym. You do it for the looks I do it for the health. But some people can't spend as much time as they want to. Not every guy can get abs as easy as I can but then there's some things on my body that I have harder time to "build".
Having a little bit of fat on your body is normal for a girl. It's feminine and it's what most guys like. That is you're normal typical girl you see. Then there's the skinny ones that, sure are attractive and then there's the ones with abs and a bit muscly. Many guys don't find the later type attractive cause muscles usually belong to guys and when a girl has muscles she's not considered very feminine. Now I'm not saying that's wrong, I'm only saying that we are programmed that way.
I know a woman that was a model in the late seventies I think it was... she got on this new craze liquid diet because she wasn't thin enough for the modelling agencies. They didn't know back then that if you only drink liquids and don't eat it ruins your thyroid and you no longer can process food properly. She is now obese because attitudes like yours ruined her body. Now people like you make her feel ashamed of herself and make her feel disgusting because people like you made her feel too fat in the first place. She literally CANNOT lose that weight. Her own daughter calls her a hippo and there is nothing she can do about it.
I'm not saying you should change your preferences, that isn't really possible. But you also shouldn't make people feel disgusting because YOU don't like the way they look. It's arrogant to say that because YOU don't like it they should feel ashamed of themselves. You should feel ashamed of yourself for making people with nothing wrong with them feel disgusting. Sure people should exercise and eat right, but if you don't know them personally you have no right to judge them based on their weight because you don't know what they've been through or why they are overweight.
I'm not saying you should change your preferences, that isn't really possible. But you also shouldn't make people feel disgusting because YOU don't like the way they look. It's arrogant to say that because YOU don't like it they should feel ashamed of themselves. You should feel ashamed of yourself for making people with nothing wrong with them feel disgusting. Sure people should exercise and eat right, but if you don't know them personally you have no right to judge them based on their weight because you don't know what they've been through or why they are overweight.