I know. I know - what burns my ass is that people use the 'don't judge' clause to further liberal agendas. God help those of us who still believe sodomy is a sin - they then unravel the 'get bent, Nazi scumbag' carpet real quick, as if that's not judgmental.
But given that I'm responding to a comment of yours in the field we're inhabiting - I'm assuming you already share many of my grievances.
Lest I judge
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