PONYPUKE's avatar
are you talking about "popping her hymen"?

if so, you don't pop a woman's hymen in sex. if you do or tear at it, it will lead to bleeding.

you don't lose your hymen, you merely only "stretch" it.
Delet-ed's avatar
Yes I was. Yeah, I thought that was what popping the cherry meant. I know the whole bleeding thing may not happen your first time, but you bleed once it's ripped.

Ah, didn't know that. I kept reading that you could lose it before sex. From playing rough, using tampons, masturbating, but it's still there even after? Interesting...interesting indeed.

Sex Ed on DA. Wooo!
PONYPUKE's avatar
yeah, some of that stuff can cause it to bleed if you do not prepare {basically start slow during sex for the first time, yadda yadda}

but yeah, you can only stretch it from those things {tampons, masturbating, etc}

though if you literally "pop" and/or tear the whole hymen, then seek out a doctor