Comment on Coming Up Aces by Shira-chan

I think I got a little carried away there, even re-covering some of the stuff you covered in the comic. And thanks for the link btw. I wasn't aware that there were degrees, although obviously I should have known that. I should probably look into it more. So just to share/relate a bit. My last GF dumped me for pretty much the same reason you and your bf split. I was interested in kissing and cuddling and playing with her boobs and whatnot and thought she was gorgeous, but little to no interest in sex most of the time. Like you, I did engage in it with her sometimes when she suggested/whined but it mostly seemed like work. I wasn't that into it and I don't know about the female side of things but the male side is pretty difficult when the libido just isn't there. There is of course the thought or even worry that maybe it's something medical. I did actually go to the Dr. and had hormone and chromosome tests done and they could't find anything physically wrong.
I was off the GF scene for about 3 years before I started dating again. I've scared off a couple women with the fact that I have a very low libido, i'm still friends with them but there are times I just think about giving up entirely on finding someone. So yeah. I know you are already aware but there are more people with similar situations out there of both genders.