Well Id agree to an extent, some feminists might do that. AS will SOME liberals, conservatives, greenies, capitalists...
My point being its usually the loud "wont let you propose another point of view" people that get on the face of any ideology, dont judge the whole thing as bad just over a few bad apples
Ive meet quite a few feminists since I began uni and none have fit the description you put forward, I know they're out there don't get me wrong, they just aren't the majority so dont think too bad about the whole group :3