Thankfully we have Nexus, the mod's called Dual Parrying if I remember correctly. As of archery...there's a mod for that too, it adds a stagger effect/animation when you hit people with arrows or power attacks (along other cool combat fixes, like stamina goes down instead of health when you're parrying). Too bad I don't remember the name right now, sigh.
Dear God, take some damn rest, woman. Seriously, it's not worth it if you're soring your eyes on that. Leave your pc closed for some days and have a ride on your bike, take a dive at the beach, do whatever it takes for you to get healthy again. Please, you need some sort of vacation from your DA works, otherwise they'll turn into a boring duty and not a fun activity.