Well, if that is your view, I respect it. However I do not see that as being the point of poetry at all. Like I said, I don't like to feel like I'm obligated to make it so that people can relate to my work. If they do, awesome. If they don't, that's fine too. But I do think it's really harsh and, if i may be frank, a bit rude to tell someone they ruined a poem (that they wrote) just because it's in a style not to your liking.
Of course! Look at anything you like.