Gods! I still love Zutara! Especially because it's not canon, as much as I wish it was. I'm rewatching the series and all I see is "Aang's obession" when it comes to Katara. I think he loves her because she's
A) She was the first girl he saw after 100 years.
B) He never really had a mother, so he latched ontot he first mother-figure he had. Which is Katara.
Even rewatching the series, and knowing kataang happens... I still don't see any romantic development on Katara's part! It's just NOT THERE! And on top of that, I don't see any character development on Aang's part. He's still the same. He keeps running away from his problems. Sokka, Toph, Zuko, Katara, hell even Mai! Showed character development. And my biggest pet peeve with kataang is how Aang treats Katara's lose of her mother. It's like he doesn't even care! No "I'm sorry" or "Oh, you poor dear" it's like he doesn't acknowledge it! Where Zuko does!
Aaah, I'm ranting again. Sorry.