Was that some sort of coping mechanism? Someone disagrees with you, they must do it for personal reasons and therefore it isn't valid! 
Did I say all? No, here's a quote for you, since you seem a little on the dumb side: "Several people are ..." - do you comprehend the meaning of the word "several"?
I don't see how any person or teenager can demand you to fix their lives unless you've strictly let them do so, which brings me back to:
If you're incapable of it out, then stop putting yourself up for it like an idiot.
Did you get all that or should I attempt to draw it for you?
Did I say all? No, here's a quote for you, since you seem a little on the dumb side: "Several people are ..." - do you comprehend the meaning of the word "several"?
I don't see how any person or teenager can demand you to fix their lives unless you've strictly let them do so, which brings me back to:
If you're incapable of it out, then stop putting yourself up for it like an idiot.
Did you get all that or should I attempt to draw it for you?
Nope. Just asked you a question. ^^ And usually when someone disagrees with another person, it's because of personal reasons of point of views.
However, I never said it wasn't valid. ^^
And again, nope. Not dumb, but I have been quite naive in the past. I was naive to think someone would listen and accept when I told them what I thought (after they had asked me my opinion, of course). And when someone doesn't listen after they have openly expressed the need of some advice and/or thoughts, it's not nice and it's not helping anybody.
And like the OP says:"if the problem you're having has gotten so big that you're making yourself physically ill but REFUSE to listen to doctors, family members and friends, then it's about fucking time you did something about it yourself!!" <-- That's MY issue.
I didn't let anyone demand me to fix it. But they sure as hell tried. Which leads us back to the OP.
*coughs*
However, I never said it wasn't valid. ^^
And again, nope. Not dumb, but I have been quite naive in the past. I was naive to think someone would listen and accept when I told them what I thought (after they had asked me my opinion, of course). And when someone doesn't listen after they have openly expressed the need of some advice and/or thoughts, it's not nice and it's not helping anybody.
And like the OP says:"if the problem you're having has gotten so big that you're making yourself physically ill but REFUSE to listen to doctors, family members and friends, then it's about fucking time you did something about it yourself!!" <-- That's MY issue.
I didn't let anyone demand me to fix it. But they sure as hell tried. Which leads us back to the OP.
*coughs*
*or point of views.
*of dishing it out