Tell him. Deal with the consequences.
For that matter, if you have this much difficulty dealing with a long-distance relationship, then maybe the right thing to do is just to break up with him. It's not fair to you or your boyfriend to cling onto a relationship that can't keep you satisfied. And you know if it doesn't, that's fine. There's no shame in being the sort of person who needs to have your lover in person--it's only wrong if you string somebody along because you can't be honest about what you need in a relationship.
For that matter, if you have this much difficulty dealing with a long-distance relationship, then maybe the right thing to do is just to break up with him. It's not fair to you or your boyfriend to cling onto a relationship that can't keep you satisfied. And you know if it doesn't, that's fine. There's no shame in being the sort of person who needs to have your lover in person--it's only wrong if you string somebody along because you can't be honest about what you need in a relationship.
i do want to be with him, i look forward to visiting him every day. i've put so much time and work into my thing with him, and i dont want it to end
Of course you want to be with him, but do you want to be with him more than you want to be with somebody that you can talk to and touch?
I mean, it's cool if you're happy with what you have. Plenty of people are perfectly happy in long-distance relationships. Just make sure that the sacrifices you're making are ones that you're really comfortable with. Don't fall into the trap of thinking he's the only fish in the sea, if the distance is too hard for you to cope with.
I mean, it's cool if you're happy with what you have. Plenty of people are perfectly happy in long-distance relationships. Just make sure that the sacrifices you're making are ones that you're really comfortable with. Don't fall into the trap of thinking he's the only fish in the sea, if the distance is too hard for you to cope with.
he helped me come out, we have a lot of history together, and i dont want to give up on it. i realize that it would be easier to find someone closer by. and it was that weakness that led me to commit this travesty. i'm visiting in the fall, so i at least have something to look forward to and find strength in.