Yea, I know what you mean: a certain few who act obnoxiously screw up the image of an entire fandom. Those kind of people piss me off like there's no tomorrow!
Since you don't seem to be like that(nice poetry btw
), then don't care what other people say, and, like my dad used to tell me, "Do what you feel is real," friend. The societal norms are boring, anyway. Crazy and different's wayyy more fun!