Comment on VLLady's profile

VLLady's avatar
welcome :)
I just saw your interesting comment under one of 'dA first page deviations', you seem to be inteligent person with reasonable attitude.
apparitionsky's avatar
Thank you hun. I was trying to make a reasonable argument but these people think that apparently any opinion that differs from their own is bad and therefore deserves a "telling off". Rude.
VLLady's avatar
did somebody do you that? That's a shame then. In my opinion, people really like to say nice things about the picture, especially if it's sexually exciting like this one, they want to see more... and sometimes just don't think about treating a woman as sex object. It's hard question for them, and they prefer to look at the booty and not to thing about anything else. :)
Well I need to admit, to not seem as a hypocrite, that I also like drawing/looking at/watching some erotic related pieces of art. I'm proud of it that I'm a girl and I can show that I'm interested in sex themes too (relating to most of male dA users, who draw sex things).
But I really see a difference between showing some nice sex things, and treating woman's body like a sex toy. I'm really sensitive on this point, and sometime's I'm really surprised that lastly I see on first dA page only boobs and perfectly round boots. (Sigh, if only these women were a little bit more natural, more curvy? but no, it's still a glorification of slim and perfect shaped body ^^).
apparitionsky's avatar
Yes, I've been abused over it quite a bit. I have no problems with nudity when it's in the right place or is clearly artistic, but when you have photos of open legs and gaping vaginas or yes, even an ass..or tits...just for the sake of showing off then that's when I get angry. There are tons of free porn sites all over the net, or even Tumblr for that. This site is supposed to be ART and while art is relative you can't argue that there is a surge of nudity here now, and no...most are not artistic. I don't just have problems with the females doing it, but how often do you log in and see a rock hard boner looking you right in the eye? So, I say nothing (though it I see clear porn on here I do report it)
VLLady's avatar
true. If I remember well, I've never seen clear porn here :confused:
But, all in all, I would be more satisfied, if there became more MALE sexy/nude/erotic
pictures. Why to hell on the first page are always only women?? I would love to see some
nice men haha :D
I'd love on dA were more female artists who are not afraid of posting sexy male pictures.