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I thought about what you had to say, and I thought you had a useful response to my request. Here is what I have to say about it.
I form an opinion about someone almost instantly, that’s natural, and I try to reframe from analyzing people in general, and like you said, it can be pointless, I agree with you there.
I don’t expect anyone to actually listen to me when it comes to defining a person’s characteristics or more. I don’t practice it like a psychologist, therapist, or healer. They revolve their lives around it; I do not, therefore my opinion is considered naïve or uneducated. I’m still so very unaware of so very much, I will admit that.
The statements I wrote about you were vague and generally common analytical assumptions that most mindful people could make. I agree, and I am aware that I am not an expert. Although I do make an effort to observe for myself as best as I can. What I said about you was an amateur’s opinion; I tried really hard to be accurate, and I am still trying just as hard. Also, for you to see my statements in an open-minded way, and not get defensive over them takes maturity I think. That is one reason why I liked you, because you understand that it takes more strength to expose your so-called flaws than it does to get offensive and reject an honest opinion.

You are right, I can’t sense your tone, pulse, vibration, or being over the net, I don’t care too either. All I need to do is be honest and receptive enough. I still get to exercise my opinion either way, and that’s all I really want to do here.
I did try to analyze you by means of text, it was all I had to work with, and I believe it was more than enough.
Ask for how I analyze people, I will use whatever information I can get, I just apply basic observation to the subject more than anything, and you are right in saying what I base my conclusions off of, a lot of it is personal experience.
I would say that your perception of me is accurate in a lot of ways, I agree with what you said about my being moody, feelings dominate my opinions, my statements are extreme feelings most of the time. I’m a sensitive person.
I also agree with what you said about my being idealistic, I am glad that you pointed that out, I just realized how idealistic I must be, I had not thought about that before. That’s really good to know, thanks.
The one thing I question is about the value I place on myself. Perhaps I do associate myself with some sort of hierarchy. I’m not really stuck up, I am uptight though, really uptight, I’m content, just not very relaxed. Hugh…. I would like to say that that side of me is a side affect of my uptight demeanor, but I know that there is more to it. Well… something to keep in mind I guess.
I think you did a great job analyzing me, thanks.
take care man

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Hmm... You didnt sound like a newbie on the forum :) Anyhow, i though i'd thank you without bumbing the thread on the forum. So...

It was inspiring, thanks. Be well.
Whatever, thats bullshit and you know it. If I was interested in thanks do you think I would say any of that stuff. I'm a selfish person, I get someting out of telling people my opinion. It really has nothing to do with you. Forgive me if this response seems rude, I am practicing honesty at the moment.
Anyhow, i liked the conversation... For me it is rude to not say anything :) Ciao.
I like you; you can confidently speak your mind, and I like that.
And hey! The conversation can go on if you like? I think we may have a few things in common. Plus like you said, I am a “new B” here and well…
I have yet to make a real connection with someone on this site.
We don’t need to discuss major life things; we could simply talk about whatever.
Everytime i do that kinda discussion stuff with someone online it sorta vanishes somewhere. Im on/off person with the net. Sometimes im lots of time online, sometimes i disappear. Usually i reappear to devArt, anyhow. It has some connection to my life, as i want to publish some stuff... So it never hurts to try.

Yeah, we have something in common. I cant figure out what it is, though. Self-analyzing?
I understand, you aren’t always online or available for periods of time. That’s fine; I’m similar, its not like I'm clinging to DA eithor, I mean, I don't even have anything going at the moment. Although lately I have been on more than I ever have before. It’s just nice to talk to different people every now and again. We could merely drop each other a line or two from time to time. Why the hell not?

I definitely analyze myself a lot too. Maybe what we have is common is that we booth think too much, not necessarily study or do research as much as we ponder and replay things and events over and over in our heads. Does that sound like you?
Indeed it does. I have a sleeping problem for that. It goes away when i have a feeling ive developed to something more or handled a situation well. I would actually very much wanna have faith in destiny because of this. You dont need to think when there's no way you could have changed nothing. Sadly, i believe i make my own destiny. So even if something was screwed up and i think how could i be so stupid, there is still a chance to save my destiny. I can analyze all the choises and my motives to take the choise i did. Then i can find the reason for the mistake and learn from it. Hopefully never do it again.

I think i know what the thing is. We have gotten used to have black/white, right/wrong world. The school world. It took me some time to learn see the grey. Still working on the colors :)

Another thing that you and me are the same... analyzing others. But thats just a by-product. Strangely it causes both judgement and understanding, doesnt it?

Just couple of thoughts, tell me if im wrong.
I will admit I often see things in black/white, right/wrong full/empty and all or nothing.
I have always had this feeling as if I am walking a thin line between the insecurity of everyday life on one side, and the temptation of a complete withdrawal from the world on the other. I am constantly debating between extremes.
I am also fixated on the paths I could take in life, like the Destiny thing.
I do analyze others a lot as well, that is why I jumped at the opportunity to analyze you, you were practically begging for it on the forum. Witch is cool; I like to be analyzed when I can hear the analysis openly, Like a critique. Might you have something to say based on what you know about me so far? A straightforward answer would help me out a lot.
Its just so hard to know what is what with self, a far removed set of eyes can see things that a close up set of eyes can not. I can see how I look close up; I just don’t know how I appear from a distance. I’m guessing you can probably tell what kind of person I am based on this conversation. Read into it a little more for me though would you; tell me how I sound because I don’t quite know anymore.
I’m open ended, critique me if you want.

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