Comment on Hating Parents by Its-An-Inferno
well, just focus on the positive. Honestly, i sometimes hate my mom because of certain aspects of her personality and what she did in the past, but i must remind myself that no human being is perfect.....
In the point you're absolutely right, no one is perfect.
But no matter how hard I try I can not (at least with my mother) remember a positive event. Only to my father (and surprised myself because I never really had much can not build a very close relationship with him as a child, in contrast to my brother, what could be because we are simply extremely different and he always had to work long) I can say something positves. It was like (in my job training) for his birthday (which even at his request) had Visited again last June. It was a rather cool period, until the one night we sat outside. We talked a little about normal things, and I told since I will have a job in August. He looked happy, and said, had made him even though my departure very sad he is glad that I did it but I go my own way and standing on my own two feet. After that, he has even started to cry. I really have to say that was for me a very strange situation I had never seen him cry. He gave himself to which he had made many mistakes and that he was proud of me. He mch (and this is the first time that I can remember hugging and also the first time I had the feeling that he was serious)
But no matter how hard I try I can not (at least with my mother) remember a positive event. Only to my father (and surprised myself because I never really had much can not build a very close relationship with him as a child, in contrast to my brother, what could be because we are simply extremely different and he always had to work long) I can say something positves. It was like (in my job training) for his birthday (which even at his request) had Visited again last June. It was a rather cool period, until the one night we sat outside. We talked a little about normal things, and I told since I will have a job in August. He looked happy, and said, had made him even though my departure very sad he is glad that I did it but I go my own way and standing on my own two feet. After that, he has even started to cry. I really have to say that was for me a very strange situation I had never seen him cry. He gave himself to which he had made many mistakes and that he was proud of me. He mch (and this is the first time that I can remember hugging and also the first time I had the feeling that he was serious)
That was wonderful!