Well now you've done it. It's a loaded question and that means I'm going to have to talk.
A lot. But if I had to pick one thing it would be:
Death.
To elaborate, I suppose that I'm having something of a second adolescence. I've been forced to look at everything that my life has been, and I realize that I've put off being myself for a long, long, *long* time. Somewhat because of my father's cruelty. Somewhat because of my mother's hopes and expectations. Somewhat because of the racism that I experienced in school. Somewhat because of how people looked at my height/weight.
But I understand now that trying to placate everyone else all of the time was a waste. ...of course, there isn't much I can do to *change* the impact it's had on me now. I don't have the kind of income to go exploring the world, like one does in movies. To change a few of my...relationships...would shatter a couple of the people that I care about and want to protect, even if it means that I'm, once again, putting myself in the backseat.
So *this* is all I have to work with. The art interest, the poetry website I'm working on, the new wardrobe choices I'm experimenting with at a painfully slow pace, the expansion of my political and social viewpoints (eventually, hopefully, with a new circle of friends to match)...this is how I can explore and express all of the bits of self that I've bottled up 'till now. This is how I practice being me. And that's my goal: to find out what it is like to be *all* of myself, not just the palatable pieces. To write/create some things that may help, speak to, or at least entertain others who are in the same stew.
Before that self turns to dust.
And you? What's got your steering wheel?