Haha, i know how it works. This isn't my first rodeo >< But you are right
As to which sex is 'easier' well I have no answer for you. They both present very unsatisfactory choices, errr, if I'm allowed to say that!? Haha!
Hey welcome to the club
It's a wretched one, unfortunately. If only i could share my life story in the blink of an eye. My only advice is to admit and realize that being happy is a choice. You either choose to make it or you don't. Sounds easy in theory, I know.
I'm alive another day, hoorah. Been working on this crazy beard of mine.