Yes I agree with you.
I just want to be healthy and not too "frumpy" as I try to age gracefully (giggles) .
The extra weight and my age were causing my joints to hurt too much and I feel so much better now.
No - I'll never be skinny but I'm pleasantly curvy and happy with the way I look, so it's all good.
I love looking at vintage photos and fashion plates that show how curvy ladies use to be.
They had plump thighs and soft bellies and those corsets that pulled in their waists so they looked divine.
A great example is of Caroline "La Belle" Otéro that can be seen at the very bottom of my Pinterest board for Unusual Photos -
[link]This photo
[link] proves "plump is beautiful"