Comment on Bigender by BethanyAngelstar
Yeah, the spectrum is complicated and colorful. : ) Yeah, feminine males aren't always gay, Some girls will bite your head off if you mistake them for males. Just one thing about the last part though--us genetic females don't 'want' to be guys and genetic males don't want to be girls. We are already who we are--want implies that transition for us, whatever that means to the individual, is optional.
I tell you that the female part of my brain has always been defunct, a useless vestige of my DNA, but nothing else. I can imitate stereotypes of women and girls, I can look like what another individual might find attractive, or I can even try to be a masculine woman. But none of it fits for me, and I always have to think about it, calculate it. Whereas I don't have to think about being a man/male. It's absolutely automatic.
But I guess it's a lot less clear to bigender and other non-binary people, so we (always trapped in the wrong body), should recognize the validity and experiences of other people, who aren't always trapped in the wrong body.
I tell you that the female part of my brain has always been defunct, a useless vestige of my DNA, but nothing else. I can imitate stereotypes of women and girls, I can look like what another individual might find attractive, or I can even try to be a masculine woman. But none of it fits for me, and I always have to think about it, calculate it. Whereas I don't have to think about being a man/male. It's absolutely automatic.
But I guess it's a lot less clear to bigender and other non-binary people, so we (always trapped in the wrong body), should recognize the validity and experiences of other people, who aren't always trapped in the wrong body.