Comment on Sex-positive by zharth
My mom forbade me to talk to my boyfriend (well, his biological gender is female but he usually prefers to be male) because a friend of mine betrayed me and told my mother that we were sexting...
we still talk, though. Because I cant' stand to be without him, because he doesn't think I'm disgusting for having such a high sex drive.
One of my best friends has a high sex drive, and she is a perfectly happy (at least as much as any of us can be), well-adjusted individual, who I happen to think is totally awesome. You are most definitely not disgusting for having a high sex drive. 
I am too disgusting. Because if I'm not satisfied I become a BITCH. I even get suicidal sometimes. And of course this is seen as being manipulative. It just hurts it hurts so bad but I realize he has a life and he can't tend to me all the time but I still get angry and I get so upset if he talks to or flirts with other people but he shouldn't limit himself to someone like me who needs too much and will become horrible if I don't get it
You're not disgusting. You may have trouble dealing with your feelings, but your sexual needs do not make you disgusting. Do you have somebody you can talk to, like a therapist or a close friend? It sounds like you could use a little help in managing your condition, but I'm really not in a good position to give you advice.
No. I have no one.
Yeah. Besides... it's not something you're supposed to talk about. Like I'm holding back what I want to say now, not because I don't want to say it, but because it's not proper for me to say it.
About sex, you mean?
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