Thank you for explaining about the ball of clay. That helps me understand.
Sorry to make you call in an adviser!
But it's a very pleasant answer they found. "God made me to know him, love him, and serve him in this world, and to be happy with him forever in the next."
I agree about mental illness. I don't think a person should be blamed for such things. We mormons talk a lot about agency, our ability to choose between right and wrong. Mental illness impairs agency. Particularly addiction. In serious cases of addiction a person may have literally no ability to choose.
Of the 'curable' varieties,(depression, addictions, eating disorders) the way I've seen people escape is something like this:
1. They are mentally ill.
2. Eventually God gives them an 'out' a brief moment of clarity and soberness.
3. They find the strength to make use of the opportunity.
4. Their state improves somewhat.
5. Eventually God give them a second 'out'...
And it continues until they are normal. It's not a fast process. Each 'out' may be months from the last. But gradual growth has always been the way God works with us.
Sorry to give you a treatise on mental illness. It just reminds me of a loved one with such problems.