No. shame on you. Not for wanting to punch a fictional character, but for having wanting to do that to someone who just lost their parent right in front of them. I am sure that if one of your parents died right in front of your face, and others were involved, you would turn the blame on someone else to hide the fact you blame yourself. I don't think anyone could think straight after that experience, and that is the most sorry excuse to want to "punch him" I;ve ever seen.