So should we assume Lurker is implying that Humon is like Tom Preston? That was the point of my inquiry. I know who Preston is, but thanks anyways.
Also, I agree about the whole 'femdom' thing. I don't think it means equality at all. At least not in this context. Although, to be clear as possible, dom and sub relationships aren't as much about submission and control as they are about providing stability and care.