I like to think of it as supporting shippers rather than annoying haters. If anything, you want the haters to get more chill.
But yeah, it would be great if more artists joined in! And by all means, defend yourself, especially against some of what passes for "logic" on Tumblr. (Latest thing I saw was "if you like the idea of characters who are minors getting together as adults, that's pedophilic." So much for human biology 101.)