What's this about me having to become a better person? I'm patient enough as it is. I don't like being taken advantage of, and it's happened before because I was too nice, too patient. If a friend screws up and we fight, I can learn to forgive them. But after too many times, then I'll start drifting away from them.
In this case, it's my sibling. I can't just get away from them because I live with him. I have to forgive them or else my parents will feel like they've failed to raise us right. Anyway, I think that's the end of this conversation.