I don't know if my family has ever caught on, but I was definitely paranoid that they would see a pattern. There are a lot of kidnapping scenes in the movies we watch together...
Totally! I think anyone with our interests has definitely been there! Always trying to play it cool... 
I envy kids discovering their bondage fetish these days, the internet and Netflix has made it so much easier to find these sorts of scenes privately
I don't disagree, I love rediscovering scenes that were once only available on third or fourth generation VHS copies playing in crystal clear HD digital crispness. But I kind of loved the thrill of tracking scenes down, seeking out the good stuff, wading through previews, playing detective trying to decide whether a preview of the next week's episode might yield DiD gold. These kids today don't know how good they have it!!
In some ways, I feel like it is almost too easy now. Of course, when I was growing up (pre-Internet age), bondage porn was not easy to come by in general. I was 18 before I was able to drive 85 miles to an adult bookstore, where I discovered Harmony Concepts magazines for the first time. That opened up a whole new world for me! If I were growing up now, I'd probably never leave my computer.
In some ways, I feel like it is almost too easy now. Of course, when I was growing up (pre-Internet age), bondage porn was not easy to come by in general. I was 18 before I was able to drive 85 miles to an adult bookstore, where I discovered Harmony Concepts magazines for the first time. That opened up a whole new world for me! If I were growing up now, I'd probably never leave my computer.