For me it's the oposite. I hate kids haters because they ruin my life. Seriously why would they hate the kids who are well behave? That seriously piss me off. What better, a kid trowing tantrum all the time or a kid who is always calm, polite and never throw any tantrum at all? It doesn't make sence at all. My friend hate kids who throw tantrum all the time, but she love the calm ones.