Comment on QueenLlamacornCake's profile

Okay, here's the thing:

I would go into like, the nuances of my beliefs around gender- but I don't think that's what you care about.
Suffice it to say, I don't hate any groups of people. There are only a few individuals I would go so far as to say I hate, and I take that seriously.
I wouldn't just hate a general group of people.

I think gender works on a binary system, with some people not fitting comfortably within that binary.
I'm more against the over-saturation of labels watering things down than people not really being Girly or Masculine.

I think nonbinary people are cool, they're just peeps trying to live their life- I have no problem with that.
It's why I'm always okay using they/them pronouns, (some people don't fit into a box and that's totally fine, yo) but still believe in two genders.

If you wanted to talk about like, the deeper political issues, I'm down for it but listen,

I think your art is really cute, and you don't seem like a bad person.
But like, it's really hurtful when people just assume I'm coming from a place of hatred.
Just because I don't believe in the spectrum doesn't mean I hold any hatred for people who do!

I've dealt with people hating me for things I can't control; I have had friends who have been in my same position or worse.
So I try really, really hard to not generalize and to try to include trans/queer people whenever I can, and try to speak up for them when they can't;
even if what they want said is different than what I believe.

Furthermore: what I believe politically can't just be summed up in a couple stupid stamps on deviant art that I saved and immediately forgot about.

Again, I don't think you're a bad person- and the fact that you were quick to defend nonbinary people/yourself shows that this is something you care a lot about.
But I'm not a bad person either, and coming into a conversation just assuming that I'm the bad guy is really hurtful!