Yeah, I pretty much figured what I'm going to need is a longer lens with an image stabilizer. The one I've got now is just a Quantaray 75-300mm. I've made do with it fairly well, but it was a pretty inexpensive lens, and it has some flaws. Unfortunately, I'm gonna have to stick with it for awhile, lenses are pretty expensive.
On the upside, I can just sit in my backyard in a lawn chair, and the birds don't really seem to be bothered by me at all, they're more interested in the feeders I've got.
Plus I'm out there so much I think they're just used to me by now.
Thanks again for your help, I'm sure I'll call on you again for more.